First time bottoming gay sex

In a sexual context, bottoming is the act of taking a dick or a dick-shaped object in your ass. On one level, bottoming is really no big deal — if you like riding dick, go ahead and ride it. But on another, butt-fucking is still cloaked in myth and stigma. Happily, Howley says this reductive presumption is finally dying out as we all become more open-minded.

When you get into the swing of it, bottoming can feel both subtly subversive — take that, patriarchy! Then when you feel loosened up, add another. At the same time, medical professionals have said that douching before anal sex is definitely not necessary and should be done carefully and sparingly.

Excessive use of enemas, for example, can lengthen your colon and lead to constipation in later life fun! It all comes down to making a personal and informed choice. It empowers them. He also likes to douche. And if I want to be rimmed, I feel like I percent have to douche.

Which brings us onto…. Nine out of ten tops will have seen it all before. It might take time to find your favourite lube, but Bradley from Durham recommends Liquid Silk. For Staples, lube is completely non-negotiable. Still, be aware that your first time might hurt. This helps to open your passage and should lessen any pain and make it more enjoyable.

And if you take a load in your ass, remember that what goes up must come down — but maybe not until the next day. By Jake Uitti.

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